Friday, October 25, 2013

Episode 3:Manish bhatt fighting with life

Manish bhatt was born in ahmedabad in a small brahmin family which comprised of father, mother, younger sister smita and his younger brother alpesh. This was poor class family in which main earning member was father of manish who used to do brahmin rituals and were living their livelihood.His father never used to demand anything from the yagman( home where he used to perform rituals) whatever was provided by the yagman , he used to accept it with pleasure.He used to be so soft that at some places he used to return without anything and then also he was happy that he had done something for somebody.In this era of increasing dearness it was very difficult to run family with such low income ,but then also they were living their life with whatever resourses were available to them.

Family was not as happy as it seemed to be because low income was the major problem for htis family which caused many conflicts within the family mostly parents of manish used to quarrel and that had a very bad impression on his mind reagarding marriage,still life was going on with all these ups and downs.His father used to have physical problems also as he used to remain ill . manish was somewhat confused regarding  one matter that his father never completed his own horoscope till his death may he added that he was knowing that his life is not too long so he tried to complete as many responsibilites as he could do.But atlast almighty is there and as it is termed "man proposes god disposes" Mostly all of  the responsibilites were incomplete except he left them with a hut which could be said as their own property and so they were sparred from paying rent after his father's death.His father died at just 35-40 leaving 3 children of which manish was eldest and so all the responsibility of his family came on his shoulders and he had to start working at very early age.He had done labour work in his early time them he started with designing work and thus their livelyhood was going on.Now mainsh is 29 complete, his brother alpesh is 24 yrs and sister smita 21 yrs but all are unmarried and mother is housewife.His responsibility is to get his brother and sister married and in that he says that I am the elder so it is my responsibiliity to do it.He tried for his marriage but due to theier financial condition and as they are living in hut most of the families reject their proposal.Regarding his marriage he says that I have never said no to any girl,the rejection is always from other side.
After so many rejections he has decided that after 30 he would not think for his marriage.Due to so many setbacks in his life he has sometimes thought of suicide ,but does not have that much courage to do it.Also a thought of family dependent on him disallows him to do so.

Now he has only one desire that his sister simta gets married and he can get one spouse for his younger brother alpesh so that his responsibility becomes complete.
He added that he does speak with his mother .he does not like her at all.May be he thinks that he had lost his father due to rude nature of his mother.Manish says he is considered to hitler  type of  personality at home who is very soft spoken and calm outside the house.This controversy also makes him very much depressed along with his ignored illness of gastric disturbances which had increased a lot and caused problem in his daily life.
In recent meeting he said now he does not wish to marry.Now the burden of life has made him depressed.But still he has got very good sense of humour and he can laugh in this struggle some life also .He has the capability of cracking jokes in the midst of serious matter.

Regarding his expectations he wants to become a very popular writer and also he wants produce a film in his mother tongue.He says that if I get a sponcer I would definately make a film.He is also desirous of  constructing a new charitable hospital for all poor patients.
Still manish is struggling with his life .Lets see what happens next in his life.

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